What it takes for a man to be faithfull to a relationship

Men and women are different no doubt. They express their emotions differently and have different expectations and needs in a relationship. Many women when looking for a mate have different considerations. Some are looking for a provider and for this reason they will go for a man who is materially successful. For other women the looks of a man are important in particular his masculinity or height.

When it comes to character it seems this is an area that is overlooked. Most women assume that because a man is in a relationship with her he will stay faithful. Sometimes when a woman meets the man he may already be in another relationship but the woman assumes she will win him completely to herself. Others assume that marriage will change a man and make him faithful.

One thing I have learnt in life is that you cannot change anyone. A man cannot change a woman if her character is not right and certainly a woman cannot change a man, particularly when it comes to faithfulness. Only a man can keep a man faithful, not a woman and her ways. A man must posses certain traits to be faithful. But before he can ever be concerned with these traits, he must respect a woman and then respect himself.

Certain societies have rites of passage which ushers a boy into manhood. This teaches a man the value of integrity, loyalty, and courage, important traits for a man. A man needs these traits to be faithful to himself and to others. However having these traits is not enough, he must also apply them to his life. This is what it means to be a grown man.

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